A New Site is Born!

Posted: August 10, 2015 in Uncategorized

I have moved my work to Eye to the North.
Please visit me there.

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I recently did a zip line tour in the hill canopies of Southern Montana. I didn’t do it because it is something that I have always wanted to do. I didn’t do it because I like moving quickly through the treetops. I did it because we were on a family vacation and the rest of the family was super excited about the opportunity. I was pretty sure this was a safe activity, so I decided to go with them.

The first thing the guides told us – even before they hooked us to a line strung across the sky at told us to let go of the pole and let the harness hold the weight – was that they had a “push by permission” policy. This means that if you get up on the platform and are having trouble convincing yourself to let go, they give you a gentle push to start you on your way. They don’t need to ask you for permission on the platform, because you give permission by coming on the tour.

We should have a push by permission policy in more areas of our lives How many times have you wanted to do something, go somewhere, or say something but just didn’t quite have the guts? What if there had been someone there – someone you trust – that had a push by permission policy? Someone who would have given you the little nudge that you needed to do, go, or say what you wanted to.

What does a Push by Permission policy look like?

First, you need to trust the person you are giving permission to push.. Lots of people are willing to push us in many directions, but they usually push in the direction they want to go, not the one that you want to go. A friend, a spouse, a lover, or a soulmate. You should have someone in your life that you trust to put their desires aside and do what is best for you.

Second, you need to let the person know that you trust them. You may not need to say the words “I trust you to give me a gentle push when I need it”, but it may not be a bad idea. There is much communication that happens without words, especially in a close relationship, but sometimes saying the words reinforces the message.

Third, you may have different people in different areas of your life whom you trust to give you a push. Doing what you want to do in your career may involve different people than those that will influence growth in your personal life. The more close friendships we have, the richer our lives are.

There are relationships that should intrinsically have the building blocks to develop this kind of trust. Family relationships – between spouses, siblings, or parent to child – are great places to find someone who can guide you to what is best for you. This family-type relationship may not come from your actual family. We have people who “is like a sister” to me.

What are the benefits of a Push by Permission policy?

Having a trusted friend is a benefit in itself. According to the Mayo Clinic (and many other sources) having good friends improves your life and your health. Good friends increase happiness, reduce stress, and are good for your heart. http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/friendships/art-20044860?pg=1

Stepping a little way outside your comfort zone gives you confidence. It makes it easier to do face new things and adjust to changes in your life. Stretching your experiences is much like exercising your body. In the same way that your  muscles get stronger when you use them, your creativity and adaptability grow when you challenge yourself.

For Christians, living as we should is often outside of our comfort zone. Mark 16:15 sates “And he said to them, ‘Go into all the world and proclaim the gospel to the whole creation.'” Fortunately, we also have the family of Christians to help us and give us a gentle push in the right direction. 1 Thessalonians 5: 11 gives us the instructions “Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.”

Look around and see where you have friends, family, coworkers, or acquaintances to whom you can give permission to give you a gentle push in the direction you know you should be going.

The Glory of the Lord

Posted: February 21, 2015 in Uncategorized
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Isaiah 45:4 “I bestow on you a title of honour, though you do not acknowledge me. I am the Lord.”

The Lord says that He will bring glory to Himself by using the people on earth, even if they do not acknowledge Him. God will use what He made to glorify Himself. You cannot help but see the glory of God if you just look for it. That’s all you have to do – look for it, because He is using what He made. Look around you and see the glory of God.

Dear God,

Thank you that You make Your power evident, even when we don’t acknowledge You. Even when we try to take the credit, You make it evident that it is Your power, not ours that allows us to do things. Thank you, God, that you continue to demonstrate Your power in my world.